One Last Christmas

By on December 9, 2017   /   Coaching, Counseling, Spiritual   /   Leave a comment

The Christmas Season is upon us! What a wonderful message of a Savior being born. Personally I’m very thankful that I took the time to get to know my Savior Jesus and allow him to change my life from the inside out. Hope, peace, joy, and many other blessings are experienced living in the Grace that He freely gives. There are days during this time of years where many people do not experience the hope, peace and joy that He promises due to emotions that surface of those that are no longer with us here on earth. This will be the first Christmas without my earthly father being present with us. This brings a mixture of emotions that can be difficult to deal with. I

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The Marital Baggage

By on September 27, 2017   /   Coaching, Counseling, Fit Mind, Marraige, Video   /   Leave a comment

Do you ever feel like your past is getting in the way of the effectiveness of your marriage? All of the things that took place in your life before you met your spouse has the potential to impact your marriage. If you have never allowed yourself take a good look at the baggage that you brought into the marriage, I suggest you make it a point to do so today! Take a look at the video and don’t delay your growth. Contact Bryan today to start creating a plan to deal with your baggage. You and your spouse deserve it! The Marital Baggage from Bryan Vignery on Vimeo.

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The Choices That Make You

By on September 4, 2017   /   Coaching, Counseling, Fit Mind, Fit Spirit   /   Leave a comment

Are You Ready to Make Different Choices? As a child, you probably remember your parents telling you that you have choices to make. Little did you know how your choices would be so profound as you grew up! Each one of us has made a series of excellent choices and we have also made a series of choices that we would change if we had the opportunity. No matter what choices you have made up to the time of reading this post, today can be the day that you start making different choices that move you forward to a better place in your life. I would have to say the time span of my college years where the years where most of my “not so

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Having a Fit Mind Doesn’t Happen by Accident

By on August 1, 2016   /   Coaching, Counseling, Fit Mind, Spiritual   /   Leave a comment
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“As the plant springs from, and could not be without, the seed, so every act of man springs from the hidden seeds of thought, and could not have appeared without them. This applies equally to those acts called “spontaneous” and “unpremeditated” as to those which are deliberately executed. Act is the blossom of thought, and joy and suffering are its fruit; thus does a man garner in the sweet and bitter fruitage of his own husbandry.” – from As A Man Thinketh, by James Allen. James Allen The reality is we need to exercise our brains! A Fit Mind is not only academic learning but it also includes exercising our minds creatively and seeking knowledge to help us grow. There have been many generations of leaders preceding

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What Color Are You?

By on April 21, 2014   /   Coaching, Counseling, Fit Mind, Fit Spirit, Spiritual   /   Leave a comment

Is your mind telling you that you CAN’T today? Many people surrender to the negativity of this word before their feet even hit the floor in the mornings. “I CAN’T” excuses are some of the most lethal excuses we can have! When the negativity creeps in, our mind shuts down and limits the positive action that can take place. Does CAN’T shut you down with your kids? Your spouse? Your parents? Your job? Your school? It shows up at the most inopportune times and most likely when you are on the verge of something great! The “CAN’T” kicks you in the behind and says; Sorry, you’re not good enough! Only you know what part of life the word CAN’T shuts you down and only you can STOP it!

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Are You Inspired?

By on April 9, 2014   /   Coaching, Counseling, Spiritual   /   Leave a comment

Inspire – To influence, move, or guide by divine or supernatural inspiration (Merriam Webster – Present Day) Inspire – To infuse or suggest ideas or monitions supernaturally; to communicate divine instructions to the mind. In this manner, we suppose the prophets to have been inspired, and the Scriptures to have been composed under divine influence or direction. (1828.mshaffer.com 1828 edition of Webster’s American Dictionary of the English Language) It is interesting to me to see how definitions of words have changed over the decades. The comparison of the two above-mentioned definitions of the word inspire, shows the tolerance of which is applied to today’s culture. I believe that when we close the gap on the tolerance, we start seeing fruit in our lives that creates

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BELIEVE!

By on February 19, 2014   /   Coaching, Counseling, Marraige, Parenting, Spiritual   /   Leave a comment

A Part of My Story I have been on a journey of influence since 1995. Not in my wildest dreams would I have thought as a kid that I would be telling you that I would be an influencer. I was always the one being influenced and following the crowd to fit in. There was no way that I thought that I had enough value to influence anyone else. So I continued to live my life submitting to everyone and everything else, no matter if it were healthy or unhealthy. This past of mine created a lot of havoc. I wouldn’t have been able to step into a position of influence without embracing the past that told me that I would NOT be an influencer.

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Influence

By on June 26, 2013   /   Coaching, Counseling, Marraige   /   Leave a comment

One definition of the word “influence” is: The capacity to have an effect on the character, development, or behavior of someone or something, or the effect itself. Influence has always been something that has amazed me. People can be influenced by many different things in many different ways. Some people are easily influenced by others. Some people are influencers and have a tendency to influence everyone that they are around. At some level each of us has influence over the people around us. It is up to us to determine “what”, “how” and “why” we influence others. Who are you? What do you believe about you? What is your deepest “Why?” These are questions that each of us will come across and start to answer

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T.I.M.E. with Children

By on January 7, 2013   /   Coaching, Counseling, Marraige, Parenting, Spiritual   /   Leave a comment

Tonight I recorded a radio show with Neil Haley, “The Total Tutor” (totaltutor.net) and we talked about TIME. The audio of this broadcast will be coming soon. In the meantime, here are the points that were made in regards to TIME. – Take a Time Out of your business, chores, entertainment, media and whatever else gets in your way. Take that time to connect with your children while you still have them around to connect with them. – Invest in the relationship through hearing your child and understanding the needs they are expressing. It is important to listen in to what your child is telling you. Sometimes that is in a non-verbal way…especially if you child is younger than three years old! – Meeting the needs

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